She will not let me see him in the care home. Has told staff i have never been around. I had a bone marrow transplant and spent the last year in the hospital. Wife called several times to let social worker know what was going on. Now they act like we never called. His partner has informed us that we can no longer take him any where. She stated that she needs his money in order to make it. She will not turn over power of attorney until she sells the house ( that he paid for with cash , he words) then she will. She has always been so worried about his money. saying we are just out to bleed him dry. All I want to do is see my dad and do things with him that i have not been able to do.