Dad is 91 and is in excellent health and quite capable of managing his affairs on his own. He has decided to sell his house and move into an apartment in an independent living senior community. I'm thrilled that he came to this decision on his own as I was beginning to be concerned with him trying to maintain his house. I live in a different state and am not able to help him as much as I would like. He refuses to come and live with my wife and I. We would both love to have him.
Is it advisable, or reasonable, for my brother or I to have a POA while dad is still capable? I'm afraid it might be insulting to him if I even suggest it.