Family members took incapacitated Mom and Brother to an attorney when they were both deemed incompetent to make their own decisions, to an attorney that decided they could change POA and did it, the allegation was that I was stealing their money, but it was unfounded when I produced clear exact documentation of how their money was being spent. Now I need to get POA back from the family member who only wants the possessions left to Brother since Mom recently passed. This includes the home, RV and other vehicles this family member has been trying to get from Mom and Brother for quite some time. I am afraid that once they get things in their own names and out of Brothers, they will make up an allegation about his inappropriate behavior (based on organic brain disorder and dementia) and have him taken away by the state, getting him out of their hair. But gaining control of his fitful property and bank accounts.
I have been saving for his care for nearly 10 years with Cd's and other investment accounts, and now they have it all, and I do not know if it has been spent among the family members or is even in tact.
I so need advise. Attempted to see an attorney locally, and this attorney has a GOOd relationship with the one I feel made a bad decision in allowing POA to change, and refuses to hear my case, leaving me to travel nearly 5 hours to find another attorney who may handle elder care issues, and still not knowing if I will get POA back to protect Brother. Not to mention, I do not have the financial ability tonight them (since they are using the money I had stocked away to care for him, to pay for this unethical attorneys services, and they have an unlimited amount of $$$ to fight, and I have nothing.)
Any suggestions? I just want him safe and his money back to him, I do not care a lick about owning anything he has, it is his and it should be used to care for him in the BEST way possible. He deserves that.
Also this atty says I can not speak to him.