Mom was put in a nursing home back in 2010, 6 years after dad passed away. They has been a lot of sibling dissention since and is getting worse. Mom as been at this nursing home for a little over 2. I am 5 hours away and don't get to see her as much as I'd like. The brothers live close and the youngest has POA and has made noises about me at the home. We stopped talking as it never leads to anything about the topic at hand, Mom, The brothers do not know what Mom needs usually and she and I get along great so she leans on me for support, but there is a limit to what I can really do. She has asked to be takent to her house, which has not been lived in for 4 years now, so my oldest daughter, who would so anything for her, took her to see her house. She was not happy with the lack of maintainence on the yard, shrubs and trees. Needless to say, the brothers have told her that the septic system and water lined are in need of repair and they are not doing anyhing about it. So all that made her very upset. Now, today, oldest brother, who has been a bully all of his life, writes this daughter and threatens her that he will tell them at the nursing home that she nor I will be able to take her out. He is not POA but could convince brother with it to do this, I fear. Can this be done? His threat was if we did again, but I also told this brother that ' you dont; have as much power as you think you have to keep us away', a taunt now that I pray won't /can't occur. Thoughts on this?? Can I be stopped from taking her out or seeing her. She is in a Mediacre nuersing home in Texas.