I cannot talk to my bro. we need to decide on many things for my mom. he lives out of state and wants to control everything. he will not answer emails , or texts. and I have given up because whenever he would reply there was always a "dig" , saying for instance that I do not have the authority or the judgement to make these decisions.. he is financial poa . i am healthcare poa. can i make the choice about things such as where my mom goes for TCU independant of him?
Can your mother handle your telling her about what your brother is doing? Is your mother competent to change who is the financial POA?