My mom's hygiene has went downhill over these past couple years. My mother will not take a shower or bathe. Says she's scared of falling. Well then take a bath or ask me for help I offer. It's not like she's 90 years old and unable to move around. She's 52 and works 40+ hours a week. She has the energy and strength to do so but she just chooses not too anymore. I guess you would call it her will power. All she does when she gets off work is come home sit in her chair and chain smoke cigarettes and plays on Facebook with her phone like she's a teenager in middle school or something. When it comes to hygiene she's just lazy and doesn't care anymore.We're going on day 20 maybe 22. I lost count. Now that's sad I have to keep count of when my mother bathes, but that's nothing. One time last year she went over 2 months with out taking one! it was like 65-70 days without bathing. She also stopped brushing, washing her hair. She just left it in a bun and stopped brushing, so now it's all matted together in a bun shape and doesn't need a hair tie that's how matted it is. It looks like a bird's nest it is disgusting. A little collection of everything that comes into contact with it and just sticks like linen, pieces of paper etc. She knows it's gross looking because when she goes out into public she makes sure she wears her work hat, so I know she's embarrassed but she won't wash it to try and fix the problem. She doesn't change her clothes. She wears her nasty, dirty work clothes day after day even when it's her day off. Last but not least she doesn't brush her teeth. I understand some people forget every now and then and that's understandable but she doesn't forget she just doesn't brush her teeth. Last time I remember seeing her brush was over a year ago. The brushing the teeth issue is the least of my concerns right now. I love her to death but this is a serious health issue and I can not take this anymore. This is affecting our relationship. Who do I contact to get help or go about getting these problems taken care of? Please somebody help me.