There's no other family. Hs father has had 4 heart attacks and has a pacemaker/defibrilator. I am disabled and walk with a prosthetic above the knee. Not even APS can help me find a place for him to go due to lack of funding. I'm past burn out and am depressed. I'm past tired and can't do this anymore. What am i supose to do to get anything accomplished? We have 35/ hrs aweek provider care but no one wll stay once they see all the work envolved. He is total care. He cannot even take a drink by himself. Nursing homes say he's too young, 34 yo. Do we have to die to get help????