He has been on disability for a number of years and has saved some money for his care. But when I see the price of nursing home care, that will not last all that long. What are the alternatives at that point? Can he file for Medicaid and qualify and stay in the same nursing he home he started out at. I really am feeling terrible about thinking about this but he has been at home for many years and his care is getting more difficult. Not only do I live here, but my 91yr old father and another sister. It just has been overwhelming lately and my sister and I are about ready to crack. Exhaustion and depression come to mind while we both still work. Any ideas would be appreciated. A live in person is really not an option for us due to size of the home. It just seems that long term care near our home would be the best for us right now. My Dad still drives and he could go over and visit as much as he wants and watch sports with my brother. Am I being realistic that such a place would exist?? or is it all wishful thinking??