Our 93 year old mom does not own a house of her own. One of my brothers (I have 3) has plenty of money and is married 40 years without children. He bought property to park his RV's and other "stuff" on the property, and this property has a modest house on the lot. He told mother she could live here for "free", until she died. Now it has been 11 years and she has only grown old and more fragile. I am the only single sister (daughter) that gets along with mom, and she asked me to live with her, my brother and sister in law agreed IF I PAY THEM CASH RENT.
I had an abusive marriage and divorced 12 years ago. I was renting a condo when my mother called and asked if I want to live with her. I agreed and became the "cash tenant" for my brother and sister in law. I changed careers and became a teachers assistant which allowed me to be home more often, but is lower paying and is only 10 month paid annually. I struggle for the 2 months that I have NO INCOME, and have GONE into DEBT to pay my brother and sister in law the RENT they want to spend on "toys". They have good paying jobs totaling over $150,000 annually, and this is their 3rd house. They are hard NOT concerned about how this situation is unfair and I am so angry about being used and taken for granted.
What should I do?