I told her that this question was not for me. As her uncle was the one she should speak with. It is a Revocable Trust and he can change it if he wishes. I asked her kindly if she does call him to be calm in her voice and not talk to him, the way she was talking to me in the emails. After two days, she called him. Within 2 minutes she was saying something that led me to believe that my Partner was upset. She told him.....SHE (me), is not even family and you two are not even married. She is filling your head with "thing". Well my partner was not about to take it and told her that she was no longer his niece if she could not trust him to make good decisions. He is not stupid and his mind is still solid. Oh sure there are short term memory issues, but they are limited. She then went on to email me and threaten that she will see to it that the TRUST is fulfilled the way her uncle wants it. WHAT? The trust is the Trust and it will be fulfilled. Then she went on to state to me that I was manipulative and had said things to him that were not true. Of course, she could not tell me what those things were. Then THE FAMILY WILL WANT TO KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING. The ultimate threat. Well there are 5 family members who live in Germany and totally thank me for what I am doing. The two who live here, don't even call with the exception of this niece. My question...His Trust is straight forward and I am the Trustee and the POA MED and FIN. What can she do to mess up the trust if anything. My partner and I suffered terribly from this call and it will take a couple of days to get over it. 1. The house is already in my name. 2 all financial accounts claim me as the beneficiary 3. All personal property is mine. What have I forgotten?