Our Mother, (4 grown children) is 70. She says she has dementia, we have not taken her seriously until lately. She is extrememly forgetful and gets upset very easily. Unfortunetly she lives an hour away from all 4 of us children and her husband refuses to move. Her husband of 16 years does not take care of her very well. He does not make her go to the doctor or take her medicine. She complains of stomach pain all the time for example and I believe she was diagnosted with divertickulitis,(sorry, I know that is not the correct spelling),severe stomach isuues where she cannot eat certain foods. all of us four children believe she has more medical issues that need attention, but she cancels her doctors appointments and we just don't know what to do. Can you help?