We can't get them to budge on assistance? We moved to Florida last year to give them help. We take them to Dr. Appt.'s, shopping, outings, while they live with other family member, equal ownership in same house. Father wants to sell, brother don't, so dad is stuck in this house, we won't leave it. We have invited them to live with us, where I can cook for them and see they are eating healthy.(Mother has diarhea most of the time because of food, not properly taken care of) She is about a stage 5 now and he is still expecting her to cook for him. He has been taken care of her solely and is really depressed. Evident after seeing him in tears at Thanksgiving dinner talking to pastor. I want to help him and he still won't let me. I've been telling him it will be easier to move her before ALZ gets really bad, he is getting the brundt of abusive remarks. What can we do before something bad really happens, like he break a hip as he is very unstable. A soon to be big problem for all?