My parents live with me. Mom is diagnosed with metastatic cancer and isnt doing well. She needs someone to be around just in case. My dad has Parkinson and dementia. He used to rely on my mom for his needs but i took over that responsibility. I am getting married in Sept 2010 and dont know how my parents will do without my help. The two look forward and live for being around family (they do not like being alone- they are afraid of being forgotten/left alone). They are middle eastern, doesnt speak English and would be heart broken if i 'had them put away' or they no longer live with me. I'm not sure what is best for any of us. Suggestions?