My Parents are 90 and 87 both are disabled living with cronic pain, financial, and mental issues and I am tring to get all those things addressed as much as can be. I try to be positive and as loving as I can with them. Dementia has taken my Dad to extreem narsacistic behavior and my mothers is so depressed all she can do is tell me what is wrong and vent. How do I create some positive? We are all on antidepressants. I want to be there for them as much as I can, but I am so depressed after calls and visits I don't what to do.I guess I am looking for tips to try to bring some positive in an very dark situation.