What should my strategy should be in dealing with this? My mom gave it to her. The caretaker is part-time through an agency and helps my father. She has been there about 2 months, part-time. She does a great job and my father trusts her. I understand her need for money, but now I don't trust her as she should have come to me first, as I'm in charge. Any advice as to what my strategy should be in dealing with this? There were no terms for repayment set up. Thank you.