I saved the receipts for a week to show my parents what they were spending vs the bills they had to pay. They still spend irresponsibly. What next. Their Jehovah witness devotion alienated most of their friends. They don't want me to help them with their finances anymore, they think I'm telling them what to do. Things are getting cut off as a result. Most recently I had to take another relative to the hospital (40 miles away) and my dad said don't do it. This relative takes them to the doctor when I am working and had taken me too. I went anyway, and my dad told my mom NOT to give me the keys anymore unless he approves. I'm a 50 yeast old woman. I am driving his truck because mine has been in the shop all summer. Overspending so I can't get it out. Whatever my dad says, mom complies, she is afraid I think. It's been 2 years of this cheap and I'm done. I came from 500 miles away to help them now I feel like I'm being slapped in the face.