My mother rarely gets out of bed, has fallen at least 20 times in the past year(no broken bones but a torn rotator cuff). My parents have called us at all kinds of times in the middle of the night, etc. to come help get my mother up off the floor. She is extremely overweight. Sometimes they give in and call 911 to help her get off the floor and back into bed. (They don't like to because they say the firemen always hurt her.) She has been to the hospital twice in the past 6 months. She has my father cancel any appointment set up for her, saying at the last minute she isn't having a good day. I finally talked them into a service that comes to the house for checkups, medications and physical therapy. However, because my mother stays up all night and sleeps all day, the afternoon appointments get cancelled more and more. I want my mother to go to a rehab hospital to strengthen her legs and arms. I would like her to get rehab so she can get through the house without any help from my father, including toileting(instead of diapers), showering, etc. Their doorways are too narrow for the walker to get through easily. The hall and space around all the furniture is too narrow for a full sized wheelchair. My father has begun to have chest pains, and he already has a stint. He went to the doctor and has a follow-up appointment after Christmas. The last time she fell, which was just a couple of days ago, they seemed to agree with me and they agreed to try to get a referral to the rehab hospital. Today my father told me that mom doesn't want to go but promised not to cancel the PT who comes to the house and promised to do the exercises daily. Yeah, that won't happen! Oh, wait, one more thing...my mother has alergies and frequently coughs at night. She has been prescribed cough medicine with codeine throughout the years. This last time she fell, I saw a big bottle on the dresser with maybe an 8th left and the bottle was only 3 days old. This is definitely why she fell that evening. I have no POA, guardianship, or anything. They make terrible decisions and won't listen to me. My dad is determined to take care of her himself because he loves her so much. I told him she may get congestive heart failure or pneumonia if they don't get her to rehab. I have told her he cannot haul on her anymore, my husband and I can't haul on her anymore, Dad may end up having a heart attack and then what will she do? I just don't know what to do anymore!