I hung up on mom today and feel bad. Seems she wants to point out everything that everyone else has done wrong in their life but never thinks she deserves the same treatment. She gets upset when my siblings voice their opinion on how she could have done things differently. Last week she was waiting on the doc to schedule (HMO) her mammo and when I asked today about when the appt is she lit into me about how I don't remember things and perhaps I need to go to the doc. She had a rather large pothole at the end of her street. She said my other sister was going to call the news station to report it. I asked her if she'd reported it to the city she said no, it wasn't her responsibility. I called the city right then and they set up a case number for it. 5 days later, after she scolded me about not remembering her mammo she said the hole is fixed. Lord have mercy on me because I asked what hole? Here we go again about my failing memory. When I tried to speak again she did the la-la thing like a kid does and would not stop. I hung up on her for fear of me telling her stop acting like a baby. I immediately called her back, knowing what I did was disrespectful and acted like the phone must have disconnected. I'm not sure how to handle this. This isn't the first time she's tuned me out by doing the la-la thing and it infuriates me. I don't allow my 12 year old to do that why should my mother be allowed? I guess I'm just aggravated and needed to vent.