I have a sweet aunt (86 years old) that is suffering from paranoia and depression. She lives with her disabled son (mid 50's) who is taking the blunt of her manic periods. She will not go to a doctor to get the right meds, any suggestions how to get her to go to a doctor for help? We live far away from them but hear the cry of help from her son. Any suggestions from those that have experienced this would be greatly appreciated.