What happened to my grandma? My grandmother broke her hip and had surgery the very next morning. When the surgery was done and she woke up, she acted like the grandma i knew before she went into surgery. Now a couple days later she got moved to a nursing facility to recover and ever since she arrived she has been totally out of it. She wont eat either. When usually my grandma eats all day long. Is this because of the pain medication? What happened?