We live in Florida and Mom likes capri length pants. This is fine most of the year. But in the colder months here - and it does get cold - she likes to wear capris with ankle boots. Or with loafers and socks.
I'm not a fashionable person at all and I'm all for comfort. I'd rather Mom wore a sweatsuit or sweat pants. And she says she doesn't really care how she looks anymore, now that dad has passed away.
But I really dislike the capri pant with boots look. And I know it's terrible but when we go out and she wears them, I'm mostly worried about what others will think - that they'll think I'm not taking care of her by letting her wear a crazy get-up. I even think this when we visit family.
I hate having to find out what she's planning to wear before we go out - or worse, trying to get her to change once she's in the capris. Should I just let her be?