She has a lady (who is not a medical professional she pays who does everything for her but is only there during the weekdays. She has been addicted to pain medications, and Xanax for years and all agree that she cannot be rehabbed at this point in her life. She is coherent enough at times to manipulate us to drop everything because of her "emergency". It is to the point that the sons who live nearby are called away from their jobs several times a week to take her to the emergency room where most of the time it is something simple that can be treated at her doctor visit. How do we help her and what kind of facility would be the best for her?