wife's mother has been living with us past 18mths. is in stage 6 alz and quickly moving into stage 7. she is on Medicaid. a mediciad bed just opened up at local memory care unit. these do not open up very much. am concerned about what options we have if MIL refuses to go to memory care unit. wife has POA but not guardianship. caring for her at home is becoming increasingly demanding affecting wifes health, the marriage, and taking care of ourselves. any insights would be helpful.
thank you, thomas