My mother has been diagnosed with a mental illness for years, but she is at the point where she can no longer take care of herself. For example, she cannot do basic activities like cook for herself or bathe herself. My father passed away a couple of years ago and it is becoming too much on my siblings and I to take care of her. We are considering a nursing home so that my mom can be somewhere that can care for her. We live in New Jersey but have found it challenging to find any resources online about assistance for nursing homes, especially for the mentally ill. Does anyone know of any resources/programs/etc. to help those with a mental illness find a nursing home and/or any kind of assisted living. Thank you so much.