My Dad gets a pension and social security totaling about $4000/month. We live in the Seattle area and the cheapest we have found for assisted living is $5000 month. I haven't looked into Medicaid but I'm assuming he makes too much. He currently lives in our home with my family (Married with two teenage boys). I use a caregiving service 3-4 days a week to give me a break but it's not enough. I'm so done and feel stuck. He has Parkinson's/dementia and can't be left alone.