In addition, I've got outside senior care givers in taking care of mom. They have noticed behaviors and meds being with held, which they are also concerned about. I've been told that if I get an Ombudsman in to investigate, that this may cause more problems. There are other things going on too... like I've asked several times for copies of medical files and have not received.
Both my sister and I are an airline flight away from mom and dad. Any advice?