I am the caregiver for our sister. This is it for the family. I'd love some help from the third sister, but she is has always ignored and/or bullied the sick sister, so the sick one does not wish to see her. We have a neighbor whom I am paying so I can get out once in a while for errands and lunch with a friend, but it's not fair! The other sister has manipulated this situation so that she doesn't have to help at all. I am very frustrated and exhausted looking at the future. Hospice is helping now, and their help is invaluable, but I still think I should not have to do this alone.