So, I received surprising news today while working my second job. Quick Sidenote: Cell phones are not allowed at my second job, so I must wait until a break to use it. Anywho, I check my phone at 7:42 PM and find a text that came in around 3:30 PM that said "Your Dad is with us..." WHAT?!?! This text came from my Step Mom's (Dad's ex wife) husband (long story) who decided to take Step Mom to a surprise birthday dinner and bring Dad. I don't have an issue with them taking Dad to dinner. They've done it before, but I did not appreciate the "by-the-way...", last minute text. In fact, they chose a restaurant Daddy didn't like, so he ended up not having lunch or dinner! So, when I nicely asked if they could give me a heads up beforehand (as they usually do), I got screamed at! How DARE I reprimand her for taking Dad to dinner... how I'm ungrateful and rude. How I ruined her birthday... blah, blah, blah... I was LIVID!!! ANYTHING could have happened and I wouldn't have known until the last minute. Am I wrong for asking her to text beforehand?