Is it wrong for me to fee resentful about it? My mother recently moved about 20 minutes away from our neighborhood because her rent became very expensive. We offered to continue to help her financially so she could stay close to us, but she hates taking money from us. Right after she moved she decided she would not drive anymore. She is 76 with some health issues but is mentally capable and can get around of course with some knee issues. She has a para transit pass and can ride around for $4 anywhere including to my house, but she refuses to use the service. I have to pick her up and drop her off with my 2 year old in the car. I don't mind once in a while but this is multiple times a week and it's starting to stress me out.I have to block out Thursdays and Fridays because she has stuff to do in our neighborhood and I need to drive her to those things too when she is here on those days. I feel like I am on call those two days and I often get stuck in traffic when I take her home and pick her up. I just feel like it's ridiculous for me to make a round trip with a small child when she can just take the service one way to come over. She always says yes to help babysit so I feel obligated to drive her, but I'm starting to resent her for being so stubborn and not considering I have a child, house and husband to take care of. It would just make it so much easier to at least meet me half way. I don't mind helping her with errands in my neighborhood but if she could get here and back it would ease the burden. When I try to talk to her she says other children help their parents and thens he asks me what kind of person I am to not drive her mother home.