Today we had a family meeting at NH for mom. Two weeks ago I was told that my mother could not be alone due the type of stroke she had, and has impulse control issues, and that she would not be able to be without a wheelchair. I told the home that I can not handle my mothers issues at home anymore, can't make the home wheelchair accessible, and am not going to have to worry about aides showing up for work, so mom was going to have to stay in the NH. Now today it seems they believe she can be unsupervised, and will get strong enough to not need the wheelchair. How does the brain damage from a stroke get miraculously cured, so there are no impulse problems? This I don't understand. I feel like they are tired of fooling with my mom and she is aggrevating them to the point that they have become as tired of it as I am, so they are going to release her. They told me she has not been declared incompetent, so does not have to stay there against her will, and that my father can sign her out. Could someone help me understand this.