I had a relative recently die. After his death he was approved for Medicaid retroactive for his last 6 months. We were self paying about $15000 per month to the nursing home. His NAMI was $21000 for the first month and $8000 after that.When we requested a refund they billed us $21000 for the month we had paid in full and deducted it from refund due. He also died the 3rd of the month and we had paid the $900 due for the 3 days but nursing home deducted $8000 from refund for 3 days. Can they do this?