Sister demanding I drive down from out-of -State, pick up my Alz Mom from Assisted Living facility and bring her to my house for Xmas. Couple things... we (my husband, children and I) have already made plans to visit the weekend after Christmas. Also the last time my Mom traveled she was extremely confused. Wandering around my brothers house and saying she wanted to go home. I’m afraid that
My Mom would wander out and fall down my stairs. I think she would be miserable! She didn’t even like to visit my house when she didn’t have dementia! Am I off base?
My sister and I already have a strenuous relationship. She is determined to micro manage my relationship with my Mother. I help as much as I can being that I live 2 1/2 hours away. My Mom was only diagnosed with Alzheimer’s last month. She has been in the assisted living facility for a month and a day.
How do I handle my controlling sister without getting into a fight?