Hello. I just moved my mom here from sisters house. I am trying to find her a place to live. Too much income for *income based housing; barely enough for assisted living. She does not want to live alone; she wants me to live in senior living with her! My Mom (88) refuses take meds (says they destroy kidney). She has a weak bladder. She walks to bathroom during the day; pees in a cup, during the night. She empties the cup in the morning. We are sleeping in the same bed, same room, at my son's house, until she decides on an apartment. I hate smelling urine all night! Is this normal? She does not bathe; only washes up. She can't get on tube.