Right now I have a grandmother that lives with me. She has mobility problems, kidney disease and high blood pressure and I am pretty sure she has some kind of dementia or age related decline but God forbid she gets tested for that. She always was a Slovenian New but it's gotten worse. Will she spend her own money to go and get her own shoes to wear or clothes? Forget about it, she says I have to buy them for her. Spend her own money on copays or on her medication? It's not happening. So it comes down to me because I'm afraid that Social Services will come down on me. But she always was greedy but it's gotten worse. Example, I needed to pick up my seizure medication along with my birth control, the moment I walked in the door, she snatched them out of my hands and said that they were for her. I was flabbergasted and grabbed them back and asked why did an 85 year old woman need birth control and she didn't have seizures so what was the deal? She said it was her house but in reality it's mine. I needed new shoes and as soon as they came in, she told me that everything that I buy and comes into the house belongs to her. It made me livid because this woman with her pension, Social Security, savings and investments has over $4,000 every month that she won't spend. The things she spends it on are her fake nails and getting her hair styled, so no, she isn't broke. How normal is this? What can I do?