Hello everyone. I am caring for my husband who has stage 5 Alzheimer’s. His personality and behavior just suck now and they get on my nerves. He is not violent, just noncompliant. And he screams VERY loudly when he does not want to do anything, including going to the bathroom with me to clean up the fecal mess in his diaper. The screaming is new and it is by far the worst behavior that I am having trouble to handle. He is also like this with the caregivers. I am wondering that IF he was in a facility now (nursing home or memory care) and behaved like this (screaming and noncompliant), what would they do? Leave him in his mess or discharge him?
Two years ago, he was in an adult daycare and was noncompliant and verbally abusive. He was discharged after just 6 short months.
Anyone have a similar experience?