Another attempt to get a plan in place.
Made a Doctor's appointment today with my sister's new General Practice Doctor. I realise the Doc can't talk to me but explained to the receptionist my sister has special needs & I had big concerns about her. I wanted to get advise re POA / Guardianship & fill Doctor in * ie ME talk TO the Doc. Doc just takes notes & can verify/ask my sister as she wishes *
Receptionist now called to cancel appointment. Doctor will not see me alone. Can see only me if I come with my sister. Can't bring sister as #1 she won't go. Even when she does go (eg when scripts are due) #2 I won't take her due to her new spasmodic fecal incontinence problem. Already urinary incontinent, falls risk & too hard to get in/out of my car. A support worker takes her now. I suppose I could meet her there (if I was advised when next apt is)?
All advice comes to this: Have to let it go. Let the chips fall. Float on by. Ride off into the sunset.
I am struggling with this... Already wrote to Doctor. Maybe I should write another letter? - send to Sister, Dad, Doctor, Psychiatrist & Care Coordinator.
Then just wait for *the fall*. Let the Social Worker make a plan. Learn to float & ride until then? Then get capacity tested & guardianship if required.
Is there any other option left????