My Mother moved in with myself and my Husband 7 years ago. Three months later my Husband died. I had to retire early to care for my Mom. She had a tough life with my Father (deceased) -----we all did. Point is she thinks I am stealing from her, argues about ANY thing. I can not seem to reach her without a raging verbal fight. I am at the end of my rope. It is impossible to deal with her, and I am so depressed. Can someone help me with dealing with her? I am 62, and I am lost. My brother died one year ago, and she seems to have gotten worse, but I can't tell any more. She acusses me of crazy things.......I am feeling hopeless.