She has recurrent UTI's and now before the chemo radiation fiasco which really took her under, she had a colostomy bag and port put in for the treatment. Since then shes been in hospital several X and recently contracted ecoli sepsis. Now on antibiotics it seems she has little more to give. Should we start planning for the end now because she seems to be on borrowed time thanks to the antibiotics but my fear is after that she will plummet again. I am the only daughter and in California trying to figure out how to best help my poor mom. Appreciate anyones advice or experience here.