She keeps trying to see if I am taking any money. She has taken me to court and the lawyers explained to her that no money has been taken from his funds. I have been taking care of him on my dollar for twelve years. I am tired of her mistrusting me and taking my files when I am not in the room. This is my house and she has no right to look through my own files. Is there jail time for her if I report this to someone?
But why are you paying for your father's care?
I would be absolutely, steamingly furious if anyone did this to me. You would hear my wrath from five counties away. But for heaven's sake, can you not just speak to the woman?