Hello to all of you! I have not checked in for a while there was so much to do after my little aunt passed away.
Now I am deciding the next move. I honored her last wishes we drove 1200 miles to bury her ashes next to my grandmother. Now I am tying up the rest of my Aunts life, you all need to know if you already do not know how to handle any financial situation. I never ever dreamed I would have anything like this to deal with now if your loved ones have any thing at all no matter how small you may think it is get the T.O.D. PAPERS SIGNED when the person is alive!
This means transfer on death it would of saved so much time after she passed away wow what a mess, while you are taking care of Alzheimer's patient its very time consuming and difficult all you think about is doctor appointments and their care all you want is to be sure their health and comfort is taken care of night and day its all about health care diapers, medicines, nurses, cna, bathing, etc,etc,etc .....but try and take time out and speak to a professional who knows how to help you if there is even the smallest investment or life insurance policy even if you have a Will this is so important.
I have made mistakes because I was unknowledgeable, so I'll spread a little knowledge from school of hard knocks! Lol..also there is probate court I'm not sure about how that works do any of you know what these letters that we have to send to family consist of? Do you know what this ad in newspaper consists of? or how its worded? and does anyone know the order of next of kin? I sure do not know. I never ever even thought about any of this stuff, whew I wish my Dad was still alive ..