My parents live in Arkansas. I live with my wife in Washington State. The primary physician for my parents has recommended that they move closer to me since they have no family in Arkansas to help take care of them. I have one brother that is overseas. I thought my wife and I had them convinced to move out to Washington. Plan was for me to go to Arkansas and help them go through things and pack up the house and get it ready to sell. I arrived yesterday, and now they are telling me they do not want to move and are not going to move. My mom has fallen 6 times since May 2014, and has broken her shoulder, repaired by surgery, and her hip and had it replaced. I don't know how I can help them if they stay in Arkansas, but i'm struggling with getting them to relocate to Washington so I can help. Dr wants them by family in the next 90 days, Dr wants them in assisted living and my dad, who is doing fine, is absolutely against that. He has stated if he moves, he is buying a house and he and my mom will move into the house. He's not going into any kind of retirement community from independent living, to assisted living or anything great. He has some kind of insurance that he has told me about dealing with aging care. With all of this, where do I start. Or do I pack up the truck and go back to washington?