My 90 yr old Grandma (Gma) suffers from Dementia. I am her only family that is actively in her life & its been that was for the past 10 years. Recently she had a stomach procedure & is currently recovering in a care home. I was living with her. I mean I have my own room there & literally all my belongings are at her house. One day her neighbor & I had a disaggreement & I started sleeping in my car & going to her house every couple days to clean, check on her & visit with her. (She has nurses too so she was not left alone).
Well long story short, I went to my house (Gma's) to go clean the house & let her dogs out since she been in the home for 2 days now. When I get there the locks are changed. Gma would not have done this. I knew the neighbor did. So I text him & ask politely if a spare key had been left for me somewhere & that I need access to inside the home. He replies "Not that I know of" & thats it. Later he texts me & tell me that Adult Protective Services says I cannot go in her house. APS has not once talked to me ever. Why is APS even talking to this neighbor, I am family. Why is this neighbor allowed to have say over my house? What do I do? (i live in Calif if that helps) please & thank you!