Mom died in October of 2013. She was in nursing home for 4 months. They oversedated her and after a discussion with the staff in a meeting we had called due to all the drugs, they were supposed to take her back to baseline. They never did that and then they sent her to detox in a psych ward and she got pneumonia and gave up and died. One of the visiting psych people also told me mom was being abused by her roomate and all of the sudden she was removed from mom's care and replaced with this person whom I say killed my mom. Should I sue or should I let this go? A gentleman told me this happened to his wife as well on the 1st day we took mom to the nursing home. His wife also passed. I am torn as to what to do but something keeps knawing at me to do something. I am confused. Any advice would be helpful to help me make a decision one way or the other. I know it won't bring her back but maybe I can make a difference for someone else's family.