My husband has had chemo and radiation for tongue and throat cancer. Was pronounced clear in Sept. 2015, however, he has forgotten how to swallow so has to be fed, medicated and watered through a tube and is on a very strict schedule to get all done. I cannot afford a nurse to administer this kind of care to him. He has a decent pension of which will cease once he dies. He also receives Social Security. I am wiped out....we are both 77. Closest relative lives1 1/2 hours away. No help nearby. Any suggestions?