Need to put my mother in a skilled nursing place asap. She has gotten way out of hand she sits there all day urinating on herself without saying nothing to anyone. She finally says something when she gives herself a rash and expects me to fix it. I have two children who get exposed to this and it isn't right. I tell her it is unsanitary and Unsafe not only for me and my kids but her as well. She doesn't seem to want to register any if at all anything I tell her. Worst part of all she will literally sit and plot all day on mean things to tell me. And I don't understand why she has this over powering mind set that she has to hold on to the past ask what she had for breakfast she can't remember but ask her what she did in junior high she will tell u some stories. I some help on how to put her in a facility it will be best cause she doesn't listen to no one only what she wants to do. She isn't capable of making decision like that for herself. But she don't care it's either what she wants or nothing and her choices effect me and my family in a negative way. I've been taking care of her since she had her stroke that caused her to become this way which is well over 12 yrs never have I gotten paid to do this anything extra she needs I buy out of my own pocket cause she can go through diapers man oh man. Everyone thought I was getting paid to do this no I am not in order to do that I need to attend two three hour. Classes which I can't because I have to watch her all the time. Help any suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks in advance.