There is someone there who has alterior motives to gain control of the finances. I am needing to replace her. My father had asked me daily to come down in november/december time frame. Was even suggesting he'd put me name on his house. I refused because he was still drinking himself to death. Bad decision. Now my evil sister is there like a circling vulture. I believe that I am the named trustee to the state. My father has been in and out of the ICU so many times since his liver shut down 20 some years ago. the last two times have been in the past 2 months aproximately. I need to move down there and take control of the dier situation. My step mom has maybe weeks left to live. I am who they both counted over the years, because out of 7 kids, I was the only to step up and help. To a point where I picked up, took my dogs, and headed there in 2014 (1000 miles away) at her request, as dad had once again left her alone with multiple strokes, because he drank himself into the hospital again. THIS IS URGENT! The sister has been there a few weeks, said dad offered her the house to come down. She took it and ran with it!!!!!! She was and had been homeless for many years. And after 7 or 8 DUI's she could even legally drive. That is just what my dad needs in his current condition where I've been told he cannot even complete full easy statements because of his condition. Please help! Unfortunately, I went though several jobs at the age 60, because partitially due to painful situations over years, where I had to become my Grandson't Foster Care Parent.