Parents in their 70's dad has one leg and is not steady on walker. mom just had half colon removed. wheelchair cant fit in messy house and when my dad asked me to come help with the garbage, it was over 50 lbs of his poop that had collected from his bedside commode! there is rotten and spoiled food, it doesn't seem there is running water, I offer to help and they tell me that their friend is coming to help "go through things".
now , when my dad was at the rehab center for his amputation. my mom fell twice and couldn't get up. the first time my dad called and I had to climb through a window. second time same as the first. still they will not give me a key . I am barely hangin on taking care of my wife and kids there is no room for them here. any suggestions?