I found signed papers giving my sibling POA over my parents finances and health.
I asked my then living father about them and he said that the POA was revoked. I did not find any revocation documents and my sibling is unaware the POA documents exist.
I care for my mother now and 80% of my parents assets have been moved to joint accounts (by my father).
My mother may need extended care now and the question of who has POA is coming up.
As the oldest in the family I have been making all decisions for her. My sibling lives out of state and rarely has much contact with her (us). Do I have a legal responsibility to disclose to my younger sibling about the POA papers?
I am the named successor trustee and executor of her Will but she is still receiving social security and pension payments (joint account) which I use to pay her (our) bills.
I could have her declared incapacitated according to the trust but the money she receives is not directed to the trust.
According to what is published on the Illinois legal aid website in the absence of a POA there is a hierarchy of people that can make medical decisions for you along with your doctor. If you don't want these people to make medical decisions for you; you create a POA.
Without a POA the order of people who have the legal authority to make decision for someone who is incapacitated is as far as I know is
spouse
oldest child
next oldest child
next oldest child
...
...
sibling
I wonder why, if the sibling doesn’t have much contact, you were not given POA to begin with. Best wishes..
My father had me open a safe deposit box where he put all his important documents. For all practical purposes I am the only one who has access. I have no reason for doing anything my father couldn't have done himself.
30 years ago when the trust was set up my father had reasons for doing it that way. I don't know if not revoking the POA was an oversight. The more important question is why the agent wasn't notified when the POA was drawn up. The lawyer who drafted the original Trust sent a letter about the trust after my father passed away but nothing about the POA was sent.