My mother hates water, she is 85 yrs and has light Dementia. I always ask her to take a shower and take her to the hair salon but she keep saying I don’t need one, I just took a bath and this was 5 or 6 weeks ago. I hate to say this, but I am struggling with her she is very stubborn and she refused to clean her self at all. She smells horrible and keeps using perfumes on top of her odor thinking it will eliminate the smell. I am embarrassed from her but have nothing to do. Help please.