Mom & dad live in an old row home that is falling apart with 3 stories. Bathroom, bedroom upstairs, and full responsibility for upkeep, bills etc. Need to get them to move out. Mom, 86, suffers from dementia. Dad is her caregiver. Dad is 87, fit as a fiddle and wants to keep enjoying life, he gives mom medications and makes sure she is fed. Is it a good idea at this point to convince them to move to a one floor senior living apartment? All utilities included. Dad would not have to take care of the bills anymore! I know mom will need more than that very soon, but they do not want to part since they have been married for 64 years.